Hello Bloggers..
Have you ever been with a person who decided not to talk to you while you’re having dinner and you thought they were angry at you, but you were not absolutely certain?
Your first question is “Are you ok?” What is the usual reply? “I’m fine.” You know they’re not fine..
The communication tool on page 179 in the book Getting To “I Do” explains the VALIDATION TOOL.
It’s taking nonverbal and flushing it to verbal. The individual will respond with a clear meaning underlying nonverbal body language. I encourage you to try it with a friend…
Use this tool with this question… ” I sense by your body language you’re not happy right now, am I right?” Dr. Pat Allen explains this tool can be used with tone of voice,facial expression,posture, and gestures.
It’s effective. So if you WANT to learn more communication tools email me at [email protected] to schedule a phone or in person session.
This tool works in any relationship…..
