Dr. Pat Allen explains if you choose to be the “female” energy, you must learn to dress and behave in a “feminine” way so you can attract a “masculine” man and begin a healthy and lasting relationship. If with your “female” energy you hook up with a “feminine energy” man instead, you will both be waiting for the other to take the lead. (page 25) to learn more about choosing the”male” energy in a relationship read GETTING TO “I DO”, BY DR. PAT ALLEN